Saturday, July 22, 2023

An Intimate Mountain wedding


After an incredible year long commitment, our youngest daughter can finally get married!  Amidst everything else she has had going on in her life, a full time job, a full time homestead, and her very time consuming commitment, she somehow also managed to plan one of the most beautiful and intimate weddings I have been to in a long time!

We met the kids and the grooms dad and stepmom in Buena Vista, Colorado about a week before the wedding, and enjoyed tons of family time, as well as some last minute wedding preparations.

One of my favorite tasks was a trip down to Denver to pick up the benches for the ceremony.  It was just Steve, our youngest daughter and me for the whole day.  We picked up our six benches at Denver Wedding Rentals, then made a fun stop at the downtown Denver Santiagos restaurant.  We picked up a few burritos for lunch, as well as a couple dozen more to share with the whole crew the next day.  What a treat!  We don’t get Santiagos burritos very often any more.  Then back to the ranch to continue setting up.

They had ordered a simple rustic arch for the ceremony, so Steve and I jumped in to help them put it together.




A couple of days before the wedding, our oldest daughter, her husband and their boys made it into town.  They stayed with our son (in-laws) parents until the day before the wedding.  When they made it to the mountains, we all got to have some fun with them before the festivities began.  

Our grandson found some really cool bones that he was so excited to show everyone.


Final preparations.






Once everything was ready for the wedding, we all checked into the Buffalo Peaks Lodge, by the golf course in downtown Buena Vista.  It was a wonderful bed and breakfast with the 6 room lodge as well as some cabins. We were lucky enough to fill up the lodge, so we had it all to ourselves. 




After cleaning up at the lodge, we all headed out to the Surf Hotel for the rehearsal dinner, which the grooms dad and step mom were kind enough to host for all of us.  It was an incredible night with more food and drink than we could have ever dreamed of.  It was so nice to spend time with everyone in a beautiful, relaxed setting by the Arkansas River.

My only photo from the rehearsal dinner, great grandpa and our youngest grandson.


We headed back to the lodge for the night, and enjoyed sweet dreams of the wedding that we would be experiencing the next day.

A few sneak peak photos of the beautiful mountain wedding.  I can’t wait to see what the photographer has for us!

The groom and his beautiful mom.


The cutest flower boy in the world!


Waiting for her entrance.







Thank you to family old and new who so kindly shared their pictures with us!

Our daughter is a simple person, and has always wanted a small, intimate wedding.  We are so happy that she got the wedding of her dreams, on her husband’s family ranch, in one of the most beautiful places in Colorado!!  It was such an amazing day!

After the ceremony, we all enjoyed family time at an elegant lunch that the grooms mom and almost step dad put on for us!  It was the perfect ending to a perfect wedding day!


The next day, they made their debut as husband and wife at their slightly larger reception in Golden, Colorado.


Congratulations to the new Mr. And Mrs.  Enjoy your honeymoon in Belize!


Friday, July 7, 2023

Enjoying Our Daughter and Grandsons

We were so lucky to spend time with our oldest daughter and her boys!









Life at their house is always so relaxing and easy!  Our time with both of our daughters is absolutely priceless!


Coast to Coast Elks Lodges

 Just over a month ago, we were in Monterey, California enjoying the beautiful Pacific views, monarchs and otters.  Then we headed east and stayed at Elks Lodges along the gulf coast and the Atlantic coast, making our way to North Carolina.

The only place we stopped that wasn’t an Elks Lodge was Marfa, TX, our first night on the road.  We stayed in the parking lot of the Marfa Mystery Lights Overlook, Marfa, Texas.  Unfortunately, it was cold, windy and rainy, so we didn’t get to see the lights, but it was fun to try, and we got a good nights sleep.  We woke up the next morning to 28 degrees and fog.  This campsite was over 4500 feet.  We saw atlas deer, an aoudad (also called a Barbary sheep) and two elk in west Texas as we passed through.

West Texas has a lot of rest areas, and it is OK to sleep there.  East Texas didn’t have nearly as many rest areas.

Night two of our trip was the Katy, TX Elks Lodge #2628.  They had about 4 hookup spots behind the lodge, and dry camping in the grass near the BBQ pit.  It was nice and quiet for sleeping and a super friendly lodge. Our first drink was free.  It was just blocks from I-10, so a very convenient place to stay.



As you cross over from east Texas into western Louisiana, there is a rest area/visitors center.  Stop there and walk the nature trail.  It is beautiful!

Night three was the New Orleans Elk Lodge #30. They had a special dinner with live music for $10.  They had nice restrooms associated with their pool.  They are usually only open during pool season, but they allowed us to use them.  Nice hot showers!  Lake Pontchartrain is 34 feet below sea level.  Very strange.

Long Beach, Port and Biloxi, Mississippi were on the way to our next lodge.  These cities had beautiful houses and sparkling white beaches.  There is an Elks Lodge in Biloxi, MS that we didn’t have an opportunity to stay at.  It had a nice grassy area for RVs, but no hookups that we could see.  It is right across the street from the gulf beach.  It was very quiet, no showers, but we could use our own if it’s warm enough. Biloxi is a gambling town, like Laughlin, NV.

We also stopped at Dauphin Island, AL where we visited the bird sanctuary and the coastal dunes.  The coastal waters in Louisiana, Mississippi and Alabama are very brown and muddy looking.

Night four was Fort Walton, Florida lodge #1795. It is a huge lodge right on the water.  This lodge wasn’t as friendly as some of the others, but they had a great location!  We parked the Jeep and walked over to Rick’s on the island for dinner.  They had a really good 3 piece band called Hi Tide playing as we ate.  We split a bowl of gumbo and a bowl of creamy crab soup.  Both were excellent!  We also shared a shrimp boil, also very good.  The staff was fun and made for a great evening!  We were able to walk along the water instead of having to walk on the road to get to the restaurant.  When we woke up it was 34 degrees, with a 14 mile per hour wind.  The real feel temperature was 28.  Burr!




The Suwannee rest area near exit 295 on I-10 in Florida is super nice!  Overnight camping is fine in Florida rest areas and they have night time security.

Night 5 was Savanna, Georgia Elks Lodge #183. It was super quiet, tucked away in a neighborhood.  They were super laidback and didn’t expect any payment since we didn’t need hookups, but we gave them $20.




Myrtle Beach, South Carolina was very touristy with tons of shopping. Candy shops and putt putt golf were plentiful!

Since it wasn’t high season, we had all of our campsites to ourselves except for Fort Walton.  


Early April:

From our destination in North Carolina, we also did a quick overnight trip.  The outer banks islands were super cold and windy, but had very pretty beaches.  South Nags Head is a quaint beach town feel this time of year with all of the houses on stilts.  So many rentals, so it appears to be very busy during the summer months.  It was almost completely deserted in early April.  During this one night adventure, we stayed at the Norfolk, Virginia Elks.  The lodge wasn’t open, but the maintenance men and the RV host lady were all super nice.


On our trip back home from North Carolina, we traveled much faster, completing the drive in three days.  This time our route was through Tennessee, Arkansas and New Mexico.


Night one was the Elks Lodge in Hot Springs, Arkansas.  There were two other very nice couples staying here.  It was an enjoyable place to stay.  Hunan Restaurant has good food and service.


Night two was the Carlsbad, New Mexico Elks lodge.  Carlsbad is a very busy oil town, so any other place would have been very expensive to stay.  We paid $10 for our one night stay.  The camping was in a dirt lot behind the building.  A big hill blocked the wind that was blowing like crazy, so it was nice and quiet.  We enjoyed taco Tuesday at the lodge.  The people here were super friendly!


Since this trip, we have stayed at other Elks lodges.  Here are some insights about each:


Albuquerque, NM

This elks lodge is very close to I-25, just south of I-40.  They charge $25 per night and have 50 amp electric.  If they are closed when you arrive, they have a self serve pay station.  It was a nice quiet stay with only one other RV.


Ft. Smith, Arkansas

This elks lodge was just a few minutes off of I-40.  We arrived on a day that they were closed, so just made ourselves at home in their gravel lot. No water, electric or dump, but a nice quiet location.